There seemed to be an increasing trend of younger guys doing some tragic actions when they cannot handle their emotions during a relationship...
Like the ns guy who brought his automatic rifle out of camp.. trying to hunt down his gf?..he could have caused some serious tragedy to the public ... end up kena charge in court... why did he do that? apparently he claim that he cant get over his gf after the ger asked for a breakup.... halo~ how old was he only? 21 lor.. fr the pic he looked quite not bad, shld have no prob looking for a new gf.... is he insecure abt himself? i might be the best person to judge his emotion, but wat he did not only hurt himself physically and mentally.. it affected his family and the ppls around him.. young punk... oh well at least he is still alive, he can still move on with his life.. learn fr his mistake....
He is consider lucky, having 2nd chance for the stupid action he did.. not everyone is as lucky as him...
Recieve an email that someone in the coy passed on.. initially i tot was due to some illness or met with a tragic accident... but after all the others start talking, more or less the conclusion i got was that he ended his life over his gf... though i have not met him myself, it was kinda sad to hear how he chose to end his life... he's only 26....
My colleague then told me this real life story that after hearing very single hair on my body stand.... goospumps all over....
Her husband is an officer(i tink) in the force... one of his recruit, 21 yr old, family quite to do had a gf who was studying overseas at the same time he was serving his ns. Perhaps he was feeling insercure of the long distance relationship, which resulted him wanting his gf to msn, talk and webcam with him almost every day and almost every min... the ger was kinda upset and tried explaining that she has to go for classes and rush for assignments, cant be with him 24-7.. but guess he just couldnt accecpt.
One day the same thing happen, after explaining that she has to go for classes and cant spend time with him, he could have been a little more 'sticky'. the ger said something like if he cant trust her, they might as well break-up. i believe she was just feeling frustrated then she just said it out cuz having to always repeat the same thing over and over again.... the guy, taking it for real that the ger wants to break up with him, said 'you will regret for the rest of ur life'. that was the last sentence he said to her.. after saying he walk to his window and hang himself infront of his gf thru the webcam.. his gf cried and called the house phone, but at that point of time no one was at home.. she kept calling.. but when his parents came home and got to the phone, all was too late..he died...
e ger flew back to attend the wake, she never stopped crying.. she feels guilty that she should not have said those harsh words abt breaking up, but she never meant it.. she still loves him very much...
Was it her fault that led to his death?
I feel that she is then the victim. she witness the whole process of her own bf hanging himself infront of her.. that image will forever haunt her.. pscycologically she is affected for the rest of her life..
Who am i to judge his actions... but i can only say that his life is given bu his parents.. he should cherish it and repay his parents and not ending his life because of such stuff...
His death forever changed his gf and his family's life.. something we will never understand, and i wont want to experience...
He was the better one off.. at least he dont have to live his life in torture of his own action...
Who is the lucky one??
